http://say-nine.com This Is Going To Hurt You More Than It Hurts Me Fri, 03 Feb 2012 19:42:56 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://say-nine.com/02/return-of-the-mindfuck/ http://say-nine.com/02/return-of-the-mindfuck/#comments Thu, 02 Feb 2012 08:04:42 +0000 Saynine http://say-nine.com/?p=686 The warm water ran down her tits in a river as Gypsy let out a scream that was appropriate for her murder. She grasped at her throat, knowing that she had been cut and the blood poured down her. "No No" she cried over and over. She was sure I had cut her and her blood was draining her life as she cried.

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]]> http://say-nine.com/11/reblog-who-defines-your-ds/feed/ 1 http://say-nine.com/10/the-love-bite-%e2%80%93-dominance-and-submission/ http://say-nine.com/10/the-love-bite-%e2%80%93-dominance-and-submission/#comments Fri, 14 Oct 2011 04:08:41 +0000 Saynine http://say-nine.com/?p=611 I want to share with you a fantastic Podcast on the subject of Dominance and Submission that I recently listened to from @SmitefulSinner and @NoviceNancy

]]> http://say-nine.com/10/the-love-bite-%e2%80%93-dominance-and-submission/feed/ 1 http://say-nine.com/10/i-am-a-predator/ http://say-nine.com/10/i-am-a-predator/#comments Tue, 11 Oct 2011 20:54:50 +0000 Saynine http://say-nine.com/?p=600 This idea that every new submissive female that comes into the hunting ground of Dominant males is a helpless doe that must be protected by the herd from these beasts is fucking ridiculous. Most if not all are here to be found. Have we forgotten what kink is?

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