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		<title>Drop and Aftercare, A Discussion</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[My last Top/Dom (sadist) wasn't a big PDA or affectionate type of person, and it carried over into his play. Thus, not much warm up or much cool down, or aftercare. Something that caused me to back away from some play. Not that I didn't like/want, but knew I couldn't get there. (I) Tried to explain it to him this way: To really know that the play is coming from a (heart) place of love and trust I need "the sandwich" approach: Beforehand offer foreplay, love, affection. . . . ]]></description>
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