http://say-nine.com This Is Going To Hurt You More Than It Hurts Me Mon, 05 Mar 2012 19:00:23 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://say-nine.com/01/drop-and-aftercare-a-discussion/ http://say-nine.com/01/drop-and-aftercare-a-discussion/#comments Fri, 29 Jan 2010 20:20:57 +0000 Saynine http://say-nine.com/?p=135 My last Top/Dom (sadist) wasn't a big PDA or affectionate type of person, and it carried over into his play. Thus, not much warm up or much cool down, or aftercare. Something that caused me to back away from some play. Not that I didn't like/want, but knew I couldn't get there. (I) Tried to explain it to him this way: To really know that the play is coming from a (heart) place of love and trust I need "the sandwich" approach: Beforehand offer foreplay, love, affection. . . .

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