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		<title>The Beautiful Dimming Light</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 19:42:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/02/the-beautiful-dimming-light/' addthis:title='The Beautiful Dimming Light '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>. . I like it. I like to see the world dim, feel the humming in my ears, the tingle of my fingers. I like to watch him, look him in the eyes as he chokes the light out of mine. I don't fight it, I welcome it. I think I smile, but it's hard to tell. I'm busy feeling. I don't struggle , , <div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/02/the-beautiful-dimming-light/' addthis:title='The Beautiful Dimming Light ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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		<title>Return of the Mindfuck</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 08:04:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Hottness]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=686</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/02/return-of-the-mindfuck/' addthis:title='Return of the Mindfuck '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>The warm water ran down her tits in a river as Gypsy let out a scream that was appropriate for her murder. She grasped at her throat, knowing that she had been cut and the blood poured down her. "No No" she cried over and over. She was sure I had cut her and her blood was draining her life as she cried.<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/02/return-of-the-mindfuck/' addthis:title='Return of the Mindfuck ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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		<title>I Am A Predator.</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/10/i-am-a-predator/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 20:54:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Play]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=600</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/10/i-am-a-predator/' addthis:title='I Am A Predator. '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>This idea that every new submissive female that comes into the hunting ground of Dominant males is a helpless doe that must be protected by the herd from these beasts is fucking ridiculous. Most if not all are here to be found. Have we forgotten what kink is?<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/10/i-am-a-predator/' addthis:title='I Am A Predator. ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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		<title>Informed Consent</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/07/informed-consent/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jul 2011 22:55:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Impact]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=458</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/07/informed-consent/' addthis:title='Informed Consent '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>I suggested that a weekend would not be enough recovery time and that she should consider taking several days off, which she did. I also asked several times on several days if she understood that the sort of play I had in mind -heavy impact play, including paddles, canes, fists, and well as choking, and intense humiliation and other psychological play- could result in injuries that could result in a need for medical intervention. I made it clear that this was not my intent and I would endeavor to prevent this, but that I did need verbal confirmation that she understood. And she did.<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/07/informed-consent/' addthis:title='Informed Consent ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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		<title>This Isn&#8217;t Play. . . BDSM and Rape</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/02/this-isnt-play-bdsm-and-rape/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:49:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Learning]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=239</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/02/this-isnt-play-bdsm-and-rape/' addthis:title='This Isn&#8217;t Play. . . BDSM and Rape '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>. .  I explained with some arrogance how BDSM practitioners negotiated hard limits and used things such as safe words and safe calls so that fantasies like rape could be played out safely between consenting partners. But in the back of my mind was the shadow of the stories that had been related to me recently about limits overrun in play and the frequency of which it occurs.<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/02/this-isnt-play-bdsm-and-rape/' addthis:title='This Isn&#8217;t Play. . . BDSM and Rape ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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