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		<title>The Beautiful Dimming Light</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 19:42:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/02/the-beautiful-dimming-light/' addthis:title='The Beautiful Dimming Light '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>. . I like it. I like to see the world dim, feel the humming in my ears, the tingle of my fingers. I like to watch him, look him in the eyes as he chokes the light out of mine. I don't fight it, I welcome it. I think I smile, but it's hard to tell. I'm busy feeling. I don't struggle , , <div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/02/the-beautiful-dimming-light/' addthis:title='The Beautiful Dimming Light ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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		<title>Return of the Mindfuck</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/02/return-of-the-mindfuck/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 08:04:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=686</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/02/return-of-the-mindfuck/' addthis:title='Return of the Mindfuck '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>The warm water ran down her tits in a river as Gypsy let out a scream that was appropriate for her murder. She grasped at her throat, knowing that she had been cut and the blood poured down her. "No No" she cried over and over. She was sure I had cut her and her blood was draining her life as she cried.<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/02/return-of-the-mindfuck/' addthis:title='Return of the Mindfuck ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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		<title>Reblog &#8211; Who Defines Your D/s?</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/11/reblog-who-defines-your-ds/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 17:01:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Polyamory]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=636</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/11/reblog-who-defines-your-ds/' addthis:title='Reblog &#8211; Who Defines Your D/s? '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>Recently I’ve seen people on multiple forums, including FetLife, Twitter, blogs, issuing proclamations regarding what qualifies a D/s relationship. How the D should manage the s. How the s should communicate with the D. Outright notices issued that if the s does not follow protocol 1, 2, and 3, they are not a true s. Declarations that a slave is better or more valuable than a submissive and that a switch is a joke.<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/11/reblog-who-defines-your-ds/' addthis:title='Reblog &#8211; Who Defines Your D/s? ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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		<title>The Love Bite – Dominance And Submission</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/10/the-love-bite-%e2%80%93-dominance-and-submission/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Oct 2011 04:08:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=611</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/10/the-love-bite-%e2%80%93-dominance-and-submission/' addthis:title='The Love Bite – Dominance And Submission '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>I want to share with you a fantastic Podcast on the subject of Dominance and Submission that I recently listened to from @SmitefulSinner and @NoviceNancy<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/10/the-love-bite-%e2%80%93-dominance-and-submission/' addthis:title='The Love Bite – Dominance And Submission ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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		<title>I Am A Predator.</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/10/i-am-a-predator/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 20:54:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=600</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/10/i-am-a-predator/' addthis:title='I Am A Predator. '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>This idea that every new submissive female that comes into the hunting ground of Dominant males is a helpless doe that must be protected by the herd from these beasts is fucking ridiculous. Most if not all are here to be found. Have we forgotten what kink is?<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/10/i-am-a-predator/' addthis:title='I Am A Predator. ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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		<title>Sub-Space, Wish You Were Here</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/07/sub-space-wish-you-were-here/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jul 2011 04:59:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Education]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=503</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/07/sub-space-wish-you-were-here/' addthis:title='Sub-Space, Wish You Were Here '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>Subspace for me, is a very deep, relaxed state that feels almost trance like. When I am in subspace, I tend to talk in third person. "Kitty will get that for you, Master." I am very driven by direct orders, and have a hard time thinking for myself.<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/07/sub-space-wish-you-were-here/' addthis:title='Sub-Space, Wish You Were Here ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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		<title>Why Do You Want To Hurt Me</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/07/why-do-you-want-to-hurt-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jul 2011 23:38:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Learning]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=486</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/07/why-do-you-want-to-hurt-me/' addthis:title='Why Do You Want To Hurt Me '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>A first clue lies in the fact that I get similar enjoyment from mental anguish experienced by a consenting partner as I do from physical suffering. The suffering that shadows the eyes of someone licking cum off the floor triggers an excitement in me rivaled by the thrill of feeling the primal resistance of a body fighting against the pain of my teeth sinking deep into their flesh,<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/07/why-do-you-want-to-hurt-me/' addthis:title='Why Do You Want To Hurt Me ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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		<title>Anatomy of a Mindfuck</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/01/anatomy-of-a-mindfuck/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 02:55:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=87</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/01/anatomy-of-a-mindfuck/' addthis:title='Anatomy of a Mindfuck '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>I had her on her knees on the floor and bent her over the couch. I filled my hand with lube and spread it on her asshole and whispered in her ear that I was quite tired of her longstanding hard limit on anal penetration and was no longer going to tolerate it. <div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/01/anatomy-of-a-mindfuck/' addthis:title='Anatomy of a Mindfuck ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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		<title>A Journey Begins</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/01/a-journey-begins/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jan 2010 06:03:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Our Journey]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=56</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/01/a-journey-begins/' addthis:title='A Journey Begins '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>We both thought at this time that monogamy was what you did when you fell in love and so we proceeded. We eventually married a few years later after the birth of our first child.<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/01/a-journey-begins/' addthis:title='A Journey Begins ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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		<title>Confidence and Broken Fingers</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/01/confidence-and-broken-fingers/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 14:34:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=51</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/01/confidence-and-broken-fingers/' addthis:title='Confidence and Broken Fingers '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>I brought my arm with my Rattan Cane back to swing and released. *This is when the movie switches to slow motion* As I swung the cane I saw what was happening but had fully committed to this blow and simply could not stop. Jewelgen had seen the motion of my arm out of the corner of her eye and instinctively dipped her now barely bound hands in front of her ass. Thwack, the cane landed across the knuckle side of 8 fingers. <div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://say-nine.com/01/confidence-and-broken-fingers/' addthis:title='Confidence and Broken Fingers ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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