http://say-nine.com This Is Going To Hurt You More Than It Hurts Me Fri, 03 Feb 2012 19:42:56 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://say-nine.com/02/this-isnt-play-bdsm-and-rape/ http://say-nine.com/02/this-isnt-play-bdsm-and-rape/#comments Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:49:39 +0000 Saynine http://say-nine.com/?p=239 . . I explained with some arrogance how BDSM practitioners negotiated hard limits and used things such as safe words and safe calls so that fantasies like rape could be played out safely between consenting partners. But in the back of my mind was the shadow of the stories that had been related to me recently about limits overrun in play and the frequency of which it occurs.

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