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		<title>The One About the Breakup.</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/04/the-one-about-the-breakup/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Apr 2010 05:43:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Our Journey]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Polyamory]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=299</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This is the blog post I didn’t want to write. I knew it needed to be written but there were so many reasons to not write it. You see, it is about a breakup, and as in most breakups there is more than one person involved, but unlike many there is also more than two. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>e[lust] #9</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/03/elust-9/</link>
		<comments>http://say-nine.com/03/elust-9/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 16:55:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=293</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
 HNT Courtesy of Margaret at They Belong to Us
Welcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest &#38; sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #10? Start with [...]]]></description>
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		<title>e[lust] #8</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/02/elust-8/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 21:39:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=287</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
HNT Courtesy of Blue-Eyed Vixen
Welcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest &#38; sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #9? Start with the rules, check out the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What About the Children</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/02/what-about-the-children/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 05:53:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Our Journey]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=275</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[We have all known for a long time that we have a future together, however it is very complicated to not only combine our lives to an extent , but for one person to uproot and start life again so far from home. Not the least of these complications is children.]]></description>
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		<title>What Makes Me Hot</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/02/what-makes-me-hot/</link>
		<comments>http://say-nine.com/02/what-makes-me-hot/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 04:26:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Hottness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Erotica]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Mollena]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=266</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[With the sincerest apologies to all of my twitter and blogging friends who write erotica, I don’t like it. It almost always leaves me flat. Now of course there is the occasional exception but in general I find reading erotica to be similar to reading an academic text. No that’s not exactly true, I am [...]]]></description>
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		<title>e[lust] #7</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/02/elust-7/</link>
		<comments>http://say-nine.com/02/elust-7/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 04:50:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=256</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
 HNT Courtesy of Coy Pink
Welcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest &#38; sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #8? Start with the rules, check out [...]]]></description>
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		<title>This Isn&#8217;t Play. . . BDSM and Rape</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/02/this-isnt-play-bdsm-and-rape/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 18:49:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=239</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If ever there has been a dichotomy of a term; Rape in BDSM is a shining example. The very basic principle that we hold so dear in BDSM play, “Nothing without consent” seems to stand in stark contrast to a very common form of play, “Rape Play”.
Originally when this post started to form in my [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Feeding My Kink, and Shameless Self Promotion</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/02/feeding-my-kink-and-shameless-self-promotion/</link>
		<comments>http://say-nine.com/02/feeding-my-kink-and-shameless-self-promotion/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 04:13:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=157</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I have a very specific Kink for writing on naked flesh and have been known to incorporate it into humiliation play. I was looking for a way to promote the blog a bit when this idea struck me. Some very sexy friends took up the cause for me.]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>5</slash:comments>
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		<title>Drop and Aftercare, A Discussion</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/01/drop-and-aftercare-a-discussion/</link>
		<comments>http://say-nine.com/01/drop-and-aftercare-a-discussion/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 19:20:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=135</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[My last Top/Dom (sadist) wasn't a big PDA or affectionate type of person, and it carried over into his play. Thus, not much warm up or much cool down, or aftercare. Something that caused me to back away from some play. Not that I didn't like/want, but knew I couldn't get there. (I) Tried to explain it to him this way: To really know that the play is coming from a (heart) place of love and trust I need "the sandwich" approach: Beforehand offer foreplay, love, affection. . . . ]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>13</slash:comments>
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		<title>e[lust] #6</title>
		<link>http://say-nine.com/01/elust-6-2/</link>
		<comments>http://say-nine.com/01/elust-6-2/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:42:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Saynine</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[E[Lust]]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://say-nine.com/?p=130</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
 HNT Courtesy of Having My Cake And Eating It Too
Welcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest &#38; sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #7? Start [...]]]></description>
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