http://say-nine.com This Is Going To Hurt You More Than It Hurts Me Fri, 03 Feb 2012 19:42:56 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://say-nine.com/07/informed-consent/ http://say-nine.com/07/informed-consent/#comments Wed, 13 Jul 2011 22:55:35 +0000 Saynine http://say-nine.com/?p=458 I suggested that a weekend would not be enough recovery time and that she should consider taking several days off, which she did. I also asked several times on several days if she understood that the sort of play I had in mind -heavy impact play, including paddles, canes, fists, and well as choking, and intense humiliation and other psychological play- could result in injuries that could result in a need for medical intervention. I made it clear that this was not my intent and I would endeavor to prevent this, but that I did need verbal confirmation that she understood. And she did.

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