http://say-nine.com This Is Going To Hurt You More Than It Hurts Me Mon, 05 Mar 2012 19:00:23 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://say-nine.com/03/selfish/ http://say-nine.com/03/selfish/#comments Mon, 05 Mar 2012 19:00:23 +0000 Saynine http://say-nine.com/?p=730 The simple truth is sometimes we have a responsibility to put on a happy fucking face and support the one who has supported us. But takers like myself see only as far as our own needs

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]]> http://say-nine.com/04/the-one-about-the-breakup/feed/ 12 http://say-nine.com/02/what-about-the-children/ http://say-nine.com/02/what-about-the-children/#comments Fri, 19 Feb 2010 06:53:56 +0000 Saynine http://say-nine.com/?p=275 We have all known for a long time that we have a future together, however it is very complicated to not only combine our lives to an extent , but for one person to uproot and start life again so far from home. Not the least of these complications is children.

]]> http://say-nine.com/02/what-about-the-children/feed/ 6 http://say-nine.com/01/compersion-its-whats-for-dinner/ http://say-nine.com/01/compersion-its-whats-for-dinner/#comments Sun, 24 Jan 2010 23:15:11 +0000 Saynine http://say-nine.com/?p=119 I sit here happy. I am happy that she will get to experience the rush of having someone treat her like a Queen. I am happy she will enjoy his company and conversation. But most of all I am happy that she knows I am happy for her.

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]]> http://say-nine.com/01/if-you-breathe-and-can-give-consent/feed/ 5 http://say-nine.com/01/a-journey-begins/ http://say-nine.com/01/a-journey-begins/#comments Thu, 07 Jan 2010 06:03:16 +0000 Saynine http://say-nine.com/?p=56 We both thought at this time that monogamy was what you did when you fell in love and so we proceeded. We eventually married a few years later after the birth of our first child.

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