http://say-nine.com This Is Going To Hurt You More Than It Hurts Me Mon, 05 Mar 2012 19:00:23 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://say-nine.com/03/selfish/ http://say-nine.com/03/selfish/#comments Mon, 05 Mar 2012 19:00:23 +0000 Saynine http://say-nine.com/?p=730 The simple truth is sometimes we have a responsibility to put on a happy fucking face and support the one who has supported us. But takers like myself see only as far as our own needs

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]]> http://say-nine.com/11/reblog-who-defines-your-ds/feed/ 1 http://say-nine.com/10/the-love-bite-%e2%80%93-dominance-and-submission/ http://say-nine.com/10/the-love-bite-%e2%80%93-dominance-and-submission/#comments Fri, 14 Oct 2011 04:08:41 +0000 Saynine http://say-nine.com/?p=611 I want to share with you a fantastic Podcast on the subject of Dominance and Submission that I recently listened to from @SmitefulSinner and @NoviceNancy

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]]> http://say-nine.com/08/shiny-pretty-relationships/feed/ 6 http://say-nine.com/07/sub-space-wish-you-were-here/ http://say-nine.com/07/sub-space-wish-you-were-here/#comments Tue, 26 Jul 2011 04:59:38 +0000 Saynine http://say-nine.com/?p=503 Subspace for me, is a very deep, relaxed state that feels almost trance like. When I am in subspace, I tend to talk in third person. "Kitty will get that for you, Master." I am very driven by direct orders, and have a hard time thinking for myself.

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