Comments on: Compersion, It’s What’s For Dinner

By: Bad Bad Girl » Is being in love ruining my D/s relationship?

Bad Bad Girl » Is being in love ruining my D/s relationship? — Sat, 27 Mar 2010 05:17:27 +0000

[...] do believe that love is not an economy of subtraction, but it is something that I need to relearn, thank you for helping me. Thank you Master, for always [...]

By: Kristi

Kristi — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 20:50:03 +0000

A great thought-provoking post. I like the method you use for finding the root of your negative feelings. I wish more people would look deeper inside of themselves instead of clinging to their knee-jerk emotions. I know it's not an easy thing to do, but perhaps more people would be happy and would find more fulfillment in their relationships. While no relationship or situation is perfect, what you and Jewelgen have would make a great role model for some.

By: The Beautiful Kind

The Beautiful Kind — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 19:18:35 +0000

I'm impressed! This is a great post. I love compersion, it is a highly evolved feeling.

By: Beast

Beast — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 09:31:20 +0000

Well said!!! This is something that so many people find hard to achieve as I see it. Glad you are there!!!!

By: Laurie

Laurie — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 05:11:30 +0000

For me this defines true love and trust so much better than a so called “normal” monogamous relationship.

By: uberVU - social comments

uberVU - social comments — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 03:30:14 +0000

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By: Catwoman69y2k

Catwoman69y2k — Mon, 25 Jan 2010 21:51:17 +0000

This is a very well thought out entry. To be honest, how you describe your sentiments as your love gos out on a date….I wonder if that is exactly how my honey feels when Im out on a date. He has told me how happy he is when Im happy, even if he is not the direct cause of that happiness.

For a while, when the cuckolding fetish was something I had to visit for a job, I started to wonder if we would be considered that. I only wondered because while Stego doesnt get off or fetishize being left alone while I go seek a bull….he does really enjoy seeing me orgasm even when in the arms of another man. So yeah, I suppose one might say that a thin line exists between Stego being just happy with me being happy and him being a straight-up cuckold. Maybe the other seperating factor is that there is no physical or verbal humiliation that is inflicted on him when I run off to be with a secondary lover.

I think Comperison is a good word, although it is a bit too close to the word “comparison” which is a no-no in my choice of a poly lifestyle.

By: britisshameless

britisshameless — Mon, 25 Jan 2010 06:02:38 +0000

Profligacy and I keep D/s out of our swinging. He is uncomfortable with someone else dominating me, and I am uncomfortable submitting to someone else. He would also be uncomfortable dominating someone else's sub.

However, I'm glad to have heard the term “compersion.” I always say that I enjoy watching my partner enjoy themselves, which sounds like that's exactly what it is.